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| My Pinky Angels picking tea leaves |
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| Sang Arnab Mummy :) |
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| Hiding from his brother..hehe |
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| Lawatan Tapak, LOL! |
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| Malam romantik @Corus |
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| Nak makan lagi kat Medan Selera Ikan Bakar PD!! |
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| Corus PD Pool..kaki tak cecah dasar, maka ultraman dtg menyelamat! ;p |
May 11, 2012
Let the pictures tell everything!
May 09, 2012
Sakitnye punggung bile jatuh tangga!!!
Salam dearest silent readers, salam perkenalan, salam sejahtera, salam lestari!!
Aik kenapa salam lestari? Sebab saya sekarang tengah mabuk dgn perkataan lestari since studying in institute LESTARI UKM..hehe
Back to the topic elly!! Siapa pernah jatuh tangga?? Nikmat tak..haha.. As for me, I enjoyed the moment I gliding the stairs like a pro skateboarder..but not till I reached half of the staircase. Then I started to cry [macam budak kecik] and later began to sob as I failed to move any of my legs or actually any part of my body..God!!! This really freaks me out (at that time). Then I realized, SAKITNYERRRR punggung Tuhan jer la yang tau!!! Nak jerit panggil my hubby tapi suara tak keluar as I can't withstand the pain..maybe it's because we are so focusing on the pain or to give the brain a different focus to the pain..I don't know about others but I often did this!
Do you guys realize that when we in extreme pain, we are not able to shout, yell or scream as as loud as when we are in fear? But sometimes if we are trembling with fright (menggeletar ketakutan) the voice also gone, hilang entah ke mana..haha
For me that is one of the chronic pain episodes in my life (possibly kurang sakit dari masa nak bersalin, baik caeser atau normal birth), but still no kidding ok!! For those brief seconds (sebaik shj I realized that saya dah terjelepuk atas tangga tu) that I was crying from the throbbing agony in my spines, my brain wasn't focusing on the pain. In first few moments, brain is intolerable to the mind, by design! After few minutes, then I shouted my husband's name and dengar dia menjerit "Hah, kenapa dgn mummy?? Jatuh apa??!!" seraya berlari keluar dari bilik tingkat atas..tak jauh pun, selangkah keluar dari bilik je..hehe..seeing me moaning (merintih dgn suara yang kecik) betul-betul atas anak tangga ke 4 atau 5. "Mummy jatuh ka?" (dah nampak lagi mau tanya ka, marah saya dalam hati saje..lalala) Kang marah die suruh bangun sendrik pulak lagi haru..dah la die tengah naik angin dengan anak bongsu yang buat perangai nak memilih baju tidur ade "star"..kang cari nahas..hehe
Dia angkat saya naik ke bilik atas kembali dan berlari ambil minyak gamat..pastu tertumpahkan gamat kat seluar saya.. (pun saya marah saje dalam hati sebab tak patut la nak marah pun..hehe melampau la kalau nak marah jugak!). Actually die memang gitu, bila saya atau salah seorang anak berada dalam kesakitan, automatically husband saya akan jadi seorang yang sangat panic, cemerkap, kelam-kabut dan naik angin tiba2..hehe. That is so him! Saya dah hidup bersama dia selama hampir 5 tahun, jadi sebaik-baiknya orang lain yang berada di sekeliling mendiamkan diri atau sekurang-kurangnya jangan menambah kemarahan dia..mungkin die tak berniat nak naik angin, tapi lelaki juga boleh diserang panik atau ketakutan bila dlm situasi macam ini, jadi maafkanlah kelemahan die..kelemahan die la yang membuatkan kita sebagai wanita lebih sayangkan die kan! Menerima kelemahan dia dan mendedahkan kelemahan kita kpd dia akan menjadikan setiap pasangan suami isteri itu lebih memahami dan melindunginya. Ecewah mode romantik pulak! Adoi, sakit belum habis ok!!
So tertiarapla saya di atas tilam selama sejam lebih kurang sebab tak berdaya nak bangun jalan2..di samping saya adalah anak-anak yang setia menemani tanpa sebarang kata. Pertamanya sebab: si anak sulung, Nadhir la yang menjadi punca mummy terbongkang atas tangga tak bangun2. Dia la yang spray Airwick lavender atas anak-anak tangga! Masa tengah mandikan si adik, Nad kata "busukla adik ni poo poo" seraya berlari masuk ke dalam bilik yang menempatkan segala peralatan membersih dan mewangi saya (Airwick, minyak wangi, Febreze etc.)..abes satu ruang atas tu die spray rupanya, bukan setakat bilik air, bilik tidur, bilik study, malahan di tangga jugak. Bertuah oh anak! Jadi sasaran pertama kemarahan si daddy tentulah Nadhir yang mengakibatkan kesakitan Mummynye..bergenang airmata di sebelah saya..huhu. Tapi sikit pun saya tak marah dia (walau pun di masa2 lain, saya selalu jgk la marahkan dia) tapi kali ni lain, saya tak marah die secebis pun! Dan sebab kedua: si adik aka Nafiz kena tempias kemarahan daddy jugak sebab masa saya jatuh tu, daddy tgh pakaikan baju tidur die..die buat perangai nak sleepwear yang ade star, tak nak pakai baju yang ayahnya dah pakaikan..huhu so senasib la dengan si abang!
Kenapa saya tak marahkan Nadhir? Sebab waktu saya tengah tahan kesakitan tu, tiba2 secara ajaibnya akal saya bersuara penuh logik dan hati berada dalam keadaan yang penuh kesabaran..mengatakan kepada diri saya "Nadhir spray logiknya sebab dia nak hilangkan bau busuk, tapi dia tak tau the proper way to spray the nozzle..all he knows that at that time was he has to get rid of the nuisance odour of his brother's poo poo"!
So itu bukanlah kesalahan totalnya..so carefully I told my husband to not keep him in guilt, kata saya "Dia baru hidup 4 tahun, orang yang umur 14 tahun pun masih lagi buat perkara2 bodoh"..so saya peluk kedua-duanya dan cakap "Mummy tak marah, mummy sayang kamu"..so they smiled!
Yang buat saya nak tergelak bila nak naik tangga utk tidur, Nadhir nampak saya bersusah-payanh mengatur langkah menaiki satu-persatu anak tangga. So he said this: "Mummy, hati-hati! Hati-hati!"
Then he also said: "Mummy, bertahan, bertahan!" Adoiii itula bila tengok Ultraman banyak sangat!! Saya nak tergelak sangat2 tapi rasa sakit di punggung tu buat hati menahan gelak..hahhaha!!
Can you believe that, a 4-year old boy saying this to his mum who's in pain..meaning that he cares so much! Alhamdulillah, terima kasih Allah! Sometimes we don't need to scold or yell to them to make a statement but to ask politely/nicely to express it clearly because everyday is a lesson to the young children.
Waktu saya kecik, tinggal dgn nenek saya..tak pernah sekali nenek naik tangan atau marah sekalipun saya sangatla nakal. Dia akan mendiamkan diri sehingga saya meminta maaf. Itu yg membuatkan saya sangat rapat dgn nenek, until now she's a shoulder for me to cry on. The centre of my reference. And I want this kind of special bond to be establish between me and my children and someday when they are married, they'll always know I'll be there for them. In happy or sad, in health or sickness, in good and bad, in poor and wealth!!
He is forever my baby..and Nafiz as well, is always our baby :)
Aik kenapa salam lestari? Sebab saya sekarang tengah mabuk dgn perkataan lestari since studying in institute LESTARI UKM..hehe
Back to the topic elly!! Siapa pernah jatuh tangga?? Nikmat tak..haha.. As for me, I enjoyed the moment I gliding the stairs like a pro skateboarder..but not till I reached half of the staircase. Then I started to cry [macam budak kecik] and later began to sob as I failed to move any of my legs or actually any part of my body..God!!! This really freaks me out (at that time). Then I realized, SAKITNYERRRR punggung Tuhan jer la yang tau!!! Nak jerit panggil my hubby tapi suara tak keluar as I can't withstand the pain..maybe it's because we are so focusing on the pain or to give the brain a different focus to the pain..I don't know about others but I often did this!
Do you guys realize that when we in extreme pain, we are not able to shout, yell or scream as as loud as when we are in fear? But sometimes if we are trembling with fright (menggeletar ketakutan) the voice also gone, hilang entah ke mana..haha
For me that is one of the chronic pain episodes in my life (possibly kurang sakit dari masa nak bersalin, baik caeser atau normal birth), but still no kidding ok!! For those brief seconds (sebaik shj I realized that saya dah terjelepuk atas tangga tu) that I was crying from the throbbing agony in my spines, my brain wasn't focusing on the pain. In first few moments, brain is intolerable to the mind, by design! After few minutes, then I shouted my husband's name and dengar dia menjerit "Hah, kenapa dgn mummy?? Jatuh apa??!!" seraya berlari keluar dari bilik tingkat atas..tak jauh pun, selangkah keluar dari bilik je..hehe..seeing me moaning (merintih dgn suara yang kecik) betul-betul atas anak tangga ke 4 atau 5. "Mummy jatuh ka?" (dah nampak lagi mau tanya ka, marah saya dalam hati saje..lalala) Kang marah die suruh bangun sendrik pulak lagi haru..dah la die tengah naik angin dengan anak bongsu yang buat perangai nak memilih baju tidur ade "star"..kang cari nahas..hehe
Dia angkat saya naik ke bilik atas kembali dan berlari ambil minyak gamat..pastu tertumpahkan gamat kat seluar saya.. (pun saya marah saje dalam hati sebab tak patut la nak marah pun..hehe melampau la kalau nak marah jugak!). Actually die memang gitu, bila saya atau salah seorang anak berada dalam kesakitan, automatically husband saya akan jadi seorang yang sangat panic, cemerkap, kelam-kabut dan naik angin tiba2..hehe. That is so him! Saya dah hidup bersama dia selama hampir 5 tahun, jadi sebaik-baiknya orang lain yang berada di sekeliling mendiamkan diri atau sekurang-kurangnya jangan menambah kemarahan dia..mungkin die tak berniat nak naik angin, tapi lelaki juga boleh diserang panik atau ketakutan bila dlm situasi macam ini, jadi maafkanlah kelemahan die..kelemahan die la yang membuatkan kita sebagai wanita lebih sayangkan die kan! Menerima kelemahan dia dan mendedahkan kelemahan kita kpd dia akan menjadikan setiap pasangan suami isteri itu lebih memahami dan melindunginya. Ecewah mode romantik pulak! Adoi, sakit belum habis ok!!
So tertiarapla saya di atas tilam selama sejam lebih kurang sebab tak berdaya nak bangun jalan2..di samping saya adalah anak-anak yang setia menemani tanpa sebarang kata. Pertamanya sebab: si anak sulung, Nadhir la yang menjadi punca mummy terbongkang atas tangga tak bangun2. Dia la yang spray Airwick lavender atas anak-anak tangga! Masa tengah mandikan si adik, Nad kata "busukla adik ni poo poo" seraya berlari masuk ke dalam bilik yang menempatkan segala peralatan membersih dan mewangi saya (Airwick, minyak wangi, Febreze etc.)..abes satu ruang atas tu die spray rupanya, bukan setakat bilik air, bilik tidur, bilik study, malahan di tangga jugak. Bertuah oh anak! Jadi sasaran pertama kemarahan si daddy tentulah Nadhir yang mengakibatkan kesakitan Mummynye..bergenang airmata di sebelah saya..huhu. Tapi sikit pun saya tak marah dia (walau pun di masa2 lain, saya selalu jgk la marahkan dia) tapi kali ni lain, saya tak marah die secebis pun! Dan sebab kedua: si adik aka Nafiz kena tempias kemarahan daddy jugak sebab masa saya jatuh tu, daddy tgh pakaikan baju tidur die..die buat perangai nak sleepwear yang ade star, tak nak pakai baju yang ayahnya dah pakaikan..huhu so senasib la dengan si abang!
Kenapa saya tak marahkan Nadhir? Sebab waktu saya tengah tahan kesakitan tu, tiba2 secara ajaibnya akal saya bersuara penuh logik dan hati berada dalam keadaan yang penuh kesabaran..mengatakan kepada diri saya "Nadhir spray logiknya sebab dia nak hilangkan bau busuk, tapi dia tak tau the proper way to spray the nozzle..all he knows that at that time was he has to get rid of the nuisance odour of his brother's poo poo"!
So itu bukanlah kesalahan totalnya..so carefully I told my husband to not keep him in guilt, kata saya "Dia baru hidup 4 tahun, orang yang umur 14 tahun pun masih lagi buat perkara2 bodoh"..so saya peluk kedua-duanya dan cakap "Mummy tak marah, mummy sayang kamu"..so they smiled!
Yang buat saya nak tergelak bila nak naik tangga utk tidur, Nadhir nampak saya bersusah-payanh mengatur langkah menaiki satu-persatu anak tangga. So he said this: "Mummy, hati-hati! Hati-hati!"
Then he also said: "Mummy, bertahan, bertahan!" Adoiii itula bila tengok Ultraman banyak sangat!! Saya nak tergelak sangat2 tapi rasa sakit di punggung tu buat hati menahan gelak..hahhaha!!
Can you believe that, a 4-year old boy saying this to his mum who's in pain..meaning that he cares so much! Alhamdulillah, terima kasih Allah! Sometimes we don't need to scold or yell to them to make a statement but to ask politely/nicely to express it clearly because everyday is a lesson to the young children.
Waktu saya kecik, tinggal dgn nenek saya..tak pernah sekali nenek naik tangan atau marah sekalipun saya sangatla nakal. Dia akan mendiamkan diri sehingga saya meminta maaf. Itu yg membuatkan saya sangat rapat dgn nenek, until now she's a shoulder for me to cry on. The centre of my reference. And I want this kind of special bond to be establish between me and my children and someday when they are married, they'll always know I'll be there for them. In happy or sad, in health or sickness, in good and bad, in poor and wealth!!
He is forever my baby..and Nafiz as well, is always our baby :)
April 04, 2012
Looking for Nice Homestay in Arau Perlis??
Hi peeps, good day people :)
Bulan 5 school holidays lagi kan? Nak pergi Padang Besar atau Wang Kelian jalan2 cari makan, shopping, atau nak jenguk anak2 di Matrikulasi Perlis, UiTM Arau, Politeknik atau UniMAP?
Nak kawasan yang damai, cantik dan tenang?? Bangun pagi-pagi terus bukak sliding door, angin sepoi-sepoi bahasa menerjah masuk ke dalam ruang tamu yang sungguh luas dan selesa..
Bila rasa lapar, terus ke Kuala Perlis makan ikan bakar di Restoran Lynda Ikan Bakar, atau teringin Laksa panas-panas di De Adna/ Kak Chah ataupun Kak Su Laksa Beras..ker nak try pulut ayam di Padang Besar, dalam 30km..sambil shopping barangan rumah ;p
Asyik-asyik masuk hotel, apekata kiter try pulak homestay? Kalau datang berjalan dgn 3 keluarga pun boleh muat sebuah rumah, dengan 3 bilik tidur dan ruang tamu yang sangat luas..masih selesa untuk kesemuanya. Kalau hotel kena sewa 3 bilik (kalau takde apartment) kan..
Jom singgah blogspot ini: D'Tasek Homestay
Bulan 5 school holidays lagi kan? Nak pergi Padang Besar atau Wang Kelian jalan2 cari makan, shopping, atau nak jenguk anak2 di Matrikulasi Perlis, UiTM Arau, Politeknik atau UniMAP?
Nak kawasan yang damai, cantik dan tenang?? Bangun pagi-pagi terus bukak sliding door, angin sepoi-sepoi bahasa menerjah masuk ke dalam ruang tamu yang sungguh luas dan selesa..
Bila rasa lapar, terus ke Kuala Perlis makan ikan bakar di Restoran Lynda Ikan Bakar, atau teringin Laksa panas-panas di De Adna/ Kak Chah ataupun Kak Su Laksa Beras..ker nak try pulut ayam di Padang Besar, dalam 30km..sambil shopping barangan rumah ;p
Asyik-asyik masuk hotel, apekata kiter try pulak homestay? Kalau datang berjalan dgn 3 keluarga pun boleh muat sebuah rumah, dengan 3 bilik tidur dan ruang tamu yang sangat luas..masih selesa untuk kesemuanya. Kalau hotel kena sewa 3 bilik (kalau takde apartment) kan..
Jom singgah blogspot ini: D'Tasek Homestay
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| Vibrant Living Hall!! |
March 21, 2012
Differences between ulcer and HFMD!
Salam peeps :)
This week should be a hectic weekdays for me & hubby as we have to prepare our proposals and to present it in front of our own research group. Every Monday I will attend Sustainability Science lecture (for post-graduates) and Tuesday/Friday another lecture of Research Method. But sadly I've to skip the RM lecture for this week, lagi sedih topik yang saya tunggu2 sekian lama that is Quantitative Sampling & Analysis pulak yg diajar pada Selasa lepas by Dr Kartini (UKM)...since saya perlu gunakan this method dalam research saya nanti...huwaaa I hate to skip the important academic lectures!! :(Sebelum saya story the reason for skipping the lecture, saya nak tanya uols..pernah kena mouth ulcer tak?? Saya baru je kena benda alah ni 2 weeks ago..besoooo pulak tu, seminggu takleh swallow solid food yg keras2..itu pun sebijik je pon! Meraung kalau makanan yg keras terkena part ulcer tu wooo...sakit gilerrr ok!! Tapi rasanye ulcer dalam mulut ni selalu xdela hinggap sampai 7,8 bijik sekaligus kot..mau pengsan dibuatnye, alamat minum air jela 2 minggu..huuuu :p Lagi sadis kalau ulcer tu berada pd strategic position, for instance sederet dgn gigi..fuuuhhhh nanges air mata darah setiapkali gigi laga die kan..hehe ;p
Tapi to be truth 7,8 bijik mouth ulcers are nothing to compared with HFMD yang menjangkiti anak2 saya sekarang ni! Sebab apa??? Sebabnye sekali die hinggap mulut sampai berpuluh2..dan dalam mulut anak2 saya sekarang ni I believe ade beratus2 ulcer (rupa die seakan2 mouth ulcer)...cer imagine tengok..haaa nganga mulut sendiri luas2, pastu imagine tgk kat kedua2 belah dalam pipi anda, kat lelangit, bibir atas bawah, bawah lidah dipenuhi dgn ulcer...dan saiznye pulak ade kecik, ade beso ok!! Isnin malam tu si adik demam dan merengek sakit 'gigi'..bile daddynye check, nampak 'beratus2 seakan2 ulcer' telah memenuhi keseluruhan pipi beliau..so terus rushing pergi klinik Bandar Seri Putra!
According to CDC [sila google sendiri..haha] Hand, foot, and mouth disease is a common viral illness that usually affects infants and children younger than 5 years old. However, it can sometimes occur in adults. Symptoms of hand, foot, and mouth disease include fever, mouth sores, and a skin rash. Semua simptom ni ade pada anak2 saya..yang paling bestnye, niat nak check adik, sekali sajela saya mintak doc check anak sulung sebab die batuk..taraaa!!! kat tangan dah penuh dengan bintat2 merah hokeyyy!! Ajaibnye si abang tak demam dan langsung tak mengadu even a word yang die sakit mulut..tapi bawah lidah die penuh ulcer beso2 tau!! Tapi si adik baru kluar ulcer ni dalam mulut..lepas sehari baru nampak bintat2 merah di tangan, kaki, dan punggung!
Jadinye dah 2 malam le kami jadi kelawar..adiknye selang 10 minit mintak saya spray Aloclair ke dalam mulutnye..ubat ni akan kebaskan sedikit mulut dan bertindak seperti mechanical barrier / protective film to the affected areas..just like pain killer la! Selain tu ade krim untuk kurangkan skin rash tapi saya tengok macam takde kesan..huhu, tapi sapu ajela dah alang2 dah bayar kan :) [kang ralat plak!] Setiapkali die nak makan atau minum air/susu die akan meraung2 SAKITTTT!!! Jadi terpaksa spray ubat ni utk reduce the level of pain, then baru die suapkan makanan ke dlm mulut. Itupun jenuh ejas nak masuk belah kanan ke kiri, sebab cuma die yg tahu belah mane paling sakit bile makanan dimasukkan. Selain itu, kami bagi dua2 makan aiskrim dan air sejuk sebab makanan lain mmg tak layan ler, SAKIT!! [hukhuk, mummy tau sayang!] Perlu juga pastikan dorang minum air yg banyak utk elakkan terhidrat disebabkan tak mampu nak makan, jadi selera makan juga berkurang drastically.
Semalam jugak hubby belikan cecair Dettol sampai 2 botol, satu untuk mandian anak2 dan satu lagi untuk basuh pakaian budak2 ni..tapi doc kate setakat luaran jela boleh bunuh virus HFMD ni, kat dalam masih ade :p takpela, usaha sudah, tawakkal jela bilanye nak sembuh..insyaAllah!
Saya jugak ambil langkah proaktif [yo yo oo!!] untuk call owner Taska dan alert Puan Rozi berkenaan kesihatan anak2 saya. Tujuannya supaya cikgu2 di taska tu boleh check budak2 lain, in case ade yg berjangkit. As parents, we must be responsible to others..do not be selfish by keeping it behind even though it's not our fault but we can help other parents to prevent the infection.
And another thing is Yesss Mummies, HFMD sangat mudah berjangkit terutama di nursery/school..so if your child whining their mouth is feeling a bit sore, please check it immediately!
Kat sini saya letakkan gambar2 berkaitan simptomnye..check it out mummies!! They are very painful, no kidding! Jadi jangan marah anak2 kalau dorg merengek2 24 jam ok..imagine diri sendiriyang kena yer..hehe :)
March 19, 2012
Berjimba di Sarawak in 2009
Salam, lama MIA (missing in action!) sebab agak busy dengan tugasan 'sekolah'..hehe..
Kali ni saya nak share sikit tentang trip kami ke Kuching, Sarawak sekitar September 2009. Sambil menghadiri conference NRTrop3 anjuran UNIMAS, kami berpeluang melawat dan bershopping di sekitar Kuching. Alhamdulillah ade bantuan dari local people, iaitu a bestfriend of mine: Effa Rinny Octavia dan adiknye: Nana yang membawa kami through free ride ke sana ke sini..hehe..enjoy the pics yer!
Kali ni saya nak share sikit tentang trip kami ke Kuching, Sarawak sekitar September 2009. Sambil menghadiri conference NRTrop3 anjuran UNIMAS, kami berpeluang melawat dan bershopping di sekitar Kuching. Alhamdulillah ade bantuan dari local people, iaitu a bestfriend of mine: Effa Rinny Octavia dan adiknye: Nana yang membawa kami through free ride ke sana ke sini..hehe..enjoy the pics yer!
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| Sampai2 terus dinner dulu di Village Barok Bistro..lapo kemain haa :)
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| Just registered as NRtrop3 participant @Hilton Kuching [pastu cabut lari..muahaha] |
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| Daddy's favourite |
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| Ayam pansuh (dimasak dlm buluh) tu mmg sgt lazat..yummy!! |
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| Pening pilih tikar sarawak.. |
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| My cutie pie! Tata Kuching..see u again! |
March 08, 2012
Diabetes in Babies & Children
Salam, entry kali ni berkisarkan penyakit kencing manis or so called as diabetes.
Kenapa cerita kali ni lain sikit yer, hmm..coz it definitely connected to a person I love..a small person actually, he's my nephew, a little boy of 9 years old, an eldest son to my beloved 2nd sister, Rosharyati. His name is Wan Arashman Izznabel.
He was diagnosed with diabetes as early as 3 years old (or maybe earlier), and starting from that he has to receive of at least 3 times of insulin injection a day and that is throughout his life..can u guys imagine a life like that. Has to abstain from many things that a child should have: foods, nice weather, ice-cream, sweets etc. Added to the worst, my sister is a single mummy with 2 kids and working in the private sector, which means she has a limited benefits to support her family. And yes, it is not easy to raise 2 small kids without a father..trust me, it is ridiculous!! Me with hubby raising our 2 boboiboys..we always need extra energy package, ade tak jual?? :) Day by day, I've seen so much sacrifices from my lovely sister..makin lama makin kurus, makin kecil je badan..eating and swallowing the pain & sorrows..betul kalau makan ubat badan kiter akan immune someday..but eating pain is nothing like this..her eyes tell u everything! We are so close since our young times..we share everything & every little things..so I know her stories well.
Setiap bulan bersengkang mata di hospital, berhabis duit gaji membeli kelengkapan perubatan anak, keperluan harian dsbnya..all by herself, dan alhamdulillah the whole family is supporting her in many ways. While she work, my parents take care of her kids, send and take them from school, and even sometimes bring them for holidays with other cousins. And so other siblings..we take care of each other.
Sudah menjadi kelaziman or normal practice in my family, setiap kelahiran cucu akan diberi 'wang amanah' (some sort like tabung amanah la)..my father especially always has savings for his grandchildren. Eventhough die tak berapa sihat sekarang, he'll always give us a call. Abah saya ni sangat2 ler garang orangnye..sepanjang kariernya dulu bergelumang dalam dunia pendidikan, malah end up his long career as Principal in Secondary School for few years before his retirement. And so as my mum, she was a Discipline Teacher when my father held the post of Penolong Kanan Hal Ehwal Murid suatu ketika dulu. Waktu sekolah adalah masa paling perit, siapla kalau ade yang buat perangai..hehehe..balik sekolah lepas lunch mesti duduk kat meja study, dengar je bunyi kereta masuk laman berlari la masing-masing buat2 pegang buku kan..hehe.. Then every saturday & sunday, mesti ade sesi study bersama abah..sesi Bahasa Inggeris or Bahasa Melayu is a compulsory..masa Form 3, dah start buat exercises utk Form 5..asal buat composition or essays, dapat balik correction dari abah dah tak nampak tulisan kiter..nampak red marks je..huhu :p Tapi abah kalau nampak je anak2 die, mesti tanya "Duit cukup tak?" :) [sukerr2]
Eh cite abah plak, ni sambung balik kisah anak kakak saya ni..I just received her sms told that they have to cancel their visit next week for another important thing. "Ayash kena admit ward seminggu, doc nak tukar ubat insulin baru"..which also means die kena ambil cuti seminggu lagi sedangkan cuti tahun ni pun dah abis..last few months almost seminggu dah ambil cuti, ayash operate..bawah telinga die bernanah, berisiko tinggi untuk merebak ke pangkal otak. Proses penyembuhan ambil masa lebih panjang sebab badan die lemah, dependence to all kinds of medicine menyebabkan his body immune system fail to work effectively. Before that he had collapsed at school due to high fever.
Beberapa definite signs you may want to watch out for in your baby and if symptomatic, take your baby to see the pediatrician
Kenapa cerita kali ni lain sikit yer, hmm..coz it definitely connected to a person I love..a small person actually, he's my nephew, a little boy of 9 years old, an eldest son to my beloved 2nd sister, Rosharyati. His name is Wan Arashman Izznabel.
He was diagnosed with diabetes as early as 3 years old (or maybe earlier), and starting from that he has to receive of at least 3 times of insulin injection a day and that is throughout his life..can u guys imagine a life like that. Has to abstain from many things that a child should have: foods, nice weather, ice-cream, sweets etc. Added to the worst, my sister is a single mummy with 2 kids and working in the private sector, which means she has a limited benefits to support her family. And yes, it is not easy to raise 2 small kids without a father..trust me, it is ridiculous!! Me with hubby raising our 2 boboiboys..we always need extra energy package, ade tak jual?? :) Day by day, I've seen so much sacrifices from my lovely sister..makin lama makin kurus, makin kecil je badan..eating and swallowing the pain & sorrows..betul kalau makan ubat badan kiter akan immune someday..but eating pain is nothing like this..her eyes tell u everything! We are so close since our young times..we share everything & every little things..so I know her stories well.
Setiap bulan bersengkang mata di hospital, berhabis duit gaji membeli kelengkapan perubatan anak, keperluan harian dsbnya..all by herself, dan alhamdulillah the whole family is supporting her in many ways. While she work, my parents take care of her kids, send and take them from school, and even sometimes bring them for holidays with other cousins. And so other siblings..we take care of each other.
Sudah menjadi kelaziman or normal practice in my family, setiap kelahiran cucu akan diberi 'wang amanah' (some sort like tabung amanah la)..my father especially always has savings for his grandchildren. Eventhough die tak berapa sihat sekarang, he'll always give us a call. Abah saya ni sangat2 ler garang orangnye..sepanjang kariernya dulu bergelumang dalam dunia pendidikan, malah end up his long career as Principal in Secondary School for few years before his retirement. And so as my mum, she was a Discipline Teacher when my father held the post of Penolong Kanan Hal Ehwal Murid suatu ketika dulu. Waktu sekolah adalah masa paling perit, siapla kalau ade yang buat perangai..hehehe..balik sekolah lepas lunch mesti duduk kat meja study, dengar je bunyi kereta masuk laman berlari la masing-masing buat2 pegang buku kan..hehe.. Then every saturday & sunday, mesti ade sesi study bersama abah..sesi Bahasa Inggeris or Bahasa Melayu is a compulsory..masa Form 3, dah start buat exercises utk Form 5..asal buat composition or essays, dapat balik correction dari abah dah tak nampak tulisan kiter..nampak red marks je..huhu :p Tapi abah kalau nampak je anak2 die, mesti tanya "Duit cukup tak?" :) [sukerr2]
Eh cite abah plak, ni sambung balik kisah anak kakak saya ni..I just received her sms told that they have to cancel their visit next week for another important thing. "Ayash kena admit ward seminggu, doc nak tukar ubat insulin baru"..which also means die kena ambil cuti seminggu lagi sedangkan cuti tahun ni pun dah abis..last few months almost seminggu dah ambil cuti, ayash operate..bawah telinga die bernanah, berisiko tinggi untuk merebak ke pangkal otak. Proses penyembuhan ambil masa lebih panjang sebab badan die lemah, dependence to all kinds of medicine menyebabkan his body immune system fail to work effectively. Before that he had collapsed at school due to high fever.
There are too many things
to handle as a single mum/dad, that's the fact..things being doubled! So nasihat
saya pada kawan2, sebelum fikirkan divorce or separates life from
husband/wife..please la fikirkan anak2 dahulu. Kebajikan mereka perlu
diutamakan kerana mereka adalah amanah kiter daripada Allah. Janganlah end up
nanti anak2 bencikan ibu bapa dan akhirnya masalah sosial masyarakat terus
bertambah. Tetapi kalau terpaksa berpisah jika tiada jalan lain, muhasabah la
diri kiter dan tetap menjaga ahli keluarga kiter..kerana mereka adalah zuriat
kiter, darah kiter mengalir dlm badan mereka. Jangan dilupakan terus kebaikan
pasangan, kerana tiada seorang manusia pun sempurna sejak azali. Jangan dihukum
anak2 yang dahagakan kasih-sayang ibu bapa dan keluarga lantaran terlalu
bencikan pasangan yang pernah hidup bersama kiter dahulu.
Semoga Allah juga merahmati keluarga saya, anda dan umat
Islam seluruhnya. Anak2 adalah cerminan kejayaan & kegagalan kiter dalam
mendidik mereka, InsyaAllah (pesan ayah saya).
Beberapa definite signs you may want to watch out for in your baby and if symptomatic, take your baby to see the pediatrician- excessive drinking (polydipsia),
- excessive urination (polyuria), and
- weight loss while eating normally.
- The slow healing of sores may be present, along with itchy and dry skin.
- Blurry eyesight in your baby may not be immediately obvious, however, your baby may display symptoms of fatigue and hunger.
- In some babies suspected of having diabetes, a dark, velvety rash may be present on the neck. Tingling in the feet may also be a symptom.
Time Frame
- Simple blood and urine tests will determine your baby's diabetes diagnosis. These tests are fairly fast and you should get results between a few minutes and a few days. Your pediatrician may then treat your baby for his disease.
March 07, 2012
Married or not you should read this...
“When I got home that night as my wife
served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She
sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my
mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I
raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she
asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her
angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That
night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find
out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a
satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore.
I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a
divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30%
stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman
who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry
for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had
said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which
was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release.
The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer
and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late
and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went
straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an
eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table
writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce
conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice
before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to
live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his
exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken
marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had
something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal
room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration
I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she
was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her
odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce
conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what
tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact
since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out
on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is
holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the
bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with
her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about
the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door.
She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much
more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse.
I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I
realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her
hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I
wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I
felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years
of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of
intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to
carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning.
She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she
sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had
grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much
pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her
head.
Our son came in at the moment and said,
Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother
out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to
come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid
I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking
from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded
my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our
wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On
the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son
had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life
lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without
locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked
upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want
the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then
touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my
head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably
because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t
love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on
our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed
to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and
burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the
way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to
write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until
death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my
hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed
-dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane
to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from
the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the
divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what
really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the
money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but
cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and
do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy
marriage!
March 05, 2012
Their BIRTHdays, again!!
Every year, the whole family are waiting to wish my sons HAPPY BUFDAY! Selalunya orang pertama akan wish samada Daddy, Tok Wan dorang from Perlis atau Paklong & Maklong from Kulim..disebabkan Mummy selalu short-term memory loss..haha..tapi INGAT YER!!
My eldest, Nadhir dob is on 13th March, while the younger ones is on 2nd February..so every year we combine the date and save it for their bufday celebration..hehe senang sikit kan..since they are schooling, so we decide to send the bufday cake to the school, Taska Acasia so that they can happy-happy with their friends..in the same time, so that their teachers will enjoy too [err lepas makan2 teachers jugak yg kena mop lantai..maafkan kami cikgu :p]
So here are the pics around the celebration, snapped by their daddy..
This cake was made by Mrs Lyn from Lyn Bakery & Cafe..her shop is situated at Sec 7 Bandar Baru Bangi..terjumpa kedai ni accidentally after several days of searching & surfing blogs and websites. Yang jumpa online semua either harga berdentum-dentam, or not meet the specifications..yerla kalau dah design 2D, 3D bagai..confirmla comes with attractive price kan..hehe..but we should respect their ability to create in such designs, bukan senang ok [kalau senang cam buat muffin pakai instant flour confirmla mummy dah buat sendiri..hehe]
Si adik tu tak cukup lilin die, lilin abang pun die nak sapu tiup jugak..sabo jela..nasib baik si abang selalu mengalah [certain times jela]..
Nadhir & Nafiz bersama kawan-kawan sekolah and their nannies..terima kasih cikgu2 yang bersusah-payah menyediakan ruang, belon, side dishes dari pagi katanya..but they really have FUN!
So bila nak balik, si adik menjerit-jeritla nak ikut mummy balik jugak..bila cakap mummy nak pergi sekolah UKM la..baru die senyap and waved his hand..good boys!! :)
My eldest, Nadhir dob is on 13th March, while the younger ones is on 2nd February..so every year we combine the date and save it for their bufday celebration..hehe senang sikit kan..since they are schooling, so we decide to send the bufday cake to the school, Taska Acasia so that they can happy-happy with their friends..in the same time, so that their teachers will enjoy too [err lepas makan2 teachers jugak yg kena mop lantai..maafkan kami cikgu :p]
So here are the pics around the celebration, snapped by their daddy..
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| ANGRY BIRDS were requested by the boys themselves! |
This cake was made by Mrs Lyn from Lyn Bakery & Cafe..her shop is situated at Sec 7 Bandar Baru Bangi..terjumpa kedai ni accidentally after several days of searching & surfing blogs and websites. Yang jumpa online semua either harga berdentum-dentam, or not meet the specifications..yerla kalau dah design 2D, 3D bagai..confirmla comes with attractive price kan..hehe..but we should respect their ability to create in such designs, bukan senang ok [kalau senang cam buat muffin pakai instant flour confirmla mummy dah buat sendiri..hehe]
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| So TEMPTING kan!! |
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| Berebut-rebut nak tiup lilin |
Nadhir & Nafiz bersama kawan-kawan sekolah and their nannies..terima kasih cikgu2 yang bersusah-payah menyediakan ruang, belon, side dishes dari pagi katanya..but they really have FUN!
So bila nak balik, si adik menjerit-jeritla nak ikut mummy balik jugak..bila cakap mummy nak pergi sekolah UKM la..baru die senyap and waved his hand..good boys!! :)
February 29, 2012
Swimming Lesson at Park Royal Penang
Hello guys, happy BESTday to those celebrating today as their birthday!! hehe..awesome what, leap year babies..i guess u r dying to wait for another birthday huhh..bukan senang hokey! I bet your families too r dying to celebrate your bufday what..hehe [jgn marah..joking guys]
We are travelling back into year 2010..hey this is our life story, so just wait till we get the right time ok..haha..
During the 2nd International Conference on Research and Technology 2010 (ICERT) held in Park Royal Penang, we brought these 2 kids along..when Mummy registered for poster presenter [ye, poster je pon..kahkah], Daddy dragged them into hotel room and rested until I have free time. Petang masa terbaik untuk swimming..lepas bangun tidur, terus headed to hotel's pool..
At first Nadhir was so, so scared to go down the water..see his face..wondering if the water is too deep for him agaknye..padahal paras pinggang adik je..hehe but look at his younger brother..
Then he slowly buat-buat berani..i guess he was building his confidence level..or trying to show off..hehe
I just watched his movements and keep snapped their pics..tak bolehla nak paksa young child kan..so I just let him mundar-mandir ke sana ke sini..and suddenly, he slowly approached his daddy asking to go down the water..and TARAAAA...eventually he made it!! I know he has the courage to do so..just give him some time to think, to feel comfortable, to whatever he needs to make him stronger..bagi can la, jangan perkecilkan kebolehan anak2 kecil..diorang still learn to know their world..so I feel so grateful for his progress, believe me..this is a BIG progress for him..and we cheered for him...hurrah baby!!
We are travelling back into year 2010..hey this is our life story, so just wait till we get the right time ok..haha..
During the 2nd International Conference on Research and Technology 2010 (ICERT) held in Park Royal Penang, we brought these 2 kids along..when Mummy registered for poster presenter [ye, poster je pon..kahkah], Daddy dragged them into hotel room and rested until I have free time. Petang masa terbaik untuk swimming..lepas bangun tidur, terus headed to hotel's pool..
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| Nadhir was actually tring to run away from his daddy.. |
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| Gigit jari je die..hehe |
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| Konon-konon tengah basahkan rambut adik die.. |
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| Nafiz aka Adik |
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| Daddy was trying to balacing the babies..yes he struggled to do so..haha |
February 24, 2012
Child is a blessing from God
Today I cancelled my plan to go to UKM, indeed I have no plan at all..hehe..So since this morning, I'm just doing laundry, cleaning the cat's poop [lagi sikit nak terpijak mase tgh sidai kain] SABO JELA, ni lain tak bukan si parsy oren gemok tu..[perut die labuh sampai ke tanah, comey!!], having 'fast breakfast' with my hubby, and so on..so, today is all about housekeeping! The moment my husband left me alone for solat jumaat..immediately i ON my laptop, thinking to start writing my 1st journal for my PhD..tapi BOOM!! That idea suddenly changed to updating my blog..huahua..
Actually, updating basi stories..so year 2008 was our 1st Aidil Fitri celebrated as parents, unfortunately most of our pics not including his father [sebab daddynye la photographer]..hehe sorry daddy :) U can see the baby's bump of mine..yes, I was already 4 and half months during that time..and actually we just know the fact that I was pregnant when my baby in there hit almost 4 months..OMG, unbelievable right! U must think that I am crazy to not notice the changes, right??
Actually sepanjang carrying my 2nd baby, saya takde mengalami sebarang alahan..not even a single 'notification' to give me an idea that I'm pregnant at that time. I was wearing high heels to work every day, malah pernah berlari dengan high heels sebab terlambat ke makmal (agak jauh dari bilik pensyarah)..my precious baby was still intact, protected by God and angels I believed that! When the doc confirmed the urine test, I was like 'stumbled', startled and giving a silent response to him..while my husband giving the most happiest face! Mana tidaknye, saya ambil implanon RM600++ sebab nak jarakkan anak & ade plan nak ke oversea to further my PhD..tapi ini semua kuasa Allah kan. We have to believe this!
Saya ambil masa seminggu untuk buang semua tekanan, depan org saya gelak..tapi dlm hati aje yg tau betapa stressnye sbb belum bersedia. I was sooo naive at that time, but later my husband said this to me which had really soothing me: "Mummy, kita akan sentiasa bersama tak kira susah @ senang, kita akan hadapinya bersama"..Alhamdulillah mengandungkan Nafiz la yg plg senang, malah saya sampai ke GH doc ckp dah terbuka 8cm..siap nurse ckp, inilah 1st time saya tgk ibu deliver normally tanpa keluar setitik peluh..sakit mmg sakit, tapi Allah permudahkan prosesnya..tak lama.
Left: Nafiz, 2 months
Right: Nadhir, 1 year ++
Actually, updating basi stories..so year 2008 was our 1st Aidil Fitri celebrated as parents, unfortunately most of our pics not including his father [sebab daddynye la photographer]..hehe sorry daddy :) U can see the baby's bump of mine..yes, I was already 4 and half months during that time..and actually we just know the fact that I was pregnant when my baby in there hit almost 4 months..OMG, unbelievable right! U must think that I am crazy to not notice the changes, right??
Actually sepanjang carrying my 2nd baby, saya takde mengalami sebarang alahan..not even a single 'notification' to give me an idea that I'm pregnant at that time. I was wearing high heels to work every day, malah pernah berlari dengan high heels sebab terlambat ke makmal (agak jauh dari bilik pensyarah)..my precious baby was still intact, protected by God and angels I believed that! When the doc confirmed the urine test, I was like 'stumbled', startled and giving a silent response to him..while my husband giving the most happiest face! Mana tidaknye, saya ambil implanon RM600++ sebab nak jarakkan anak & ade plan nak ke oversea to further my PhD..tapi ini semua kuasa Allah kan. We have to believe this!
Saya ambil masa seminggu untuk buang semua tekanan, depan org saya gelak..tapi dlm hati aje yg tau betapa stressnye sbb belum bersedia. I was sooo naive at that time, but later my husband said this to me which had really soothing me: "Mummy, kita akan sentiasa bersama tak kira susah @ senang, kita akan hadapinya bersama"..Alhamdulillah mengandungkan Nafiz la yg plg senang, malah saya sampai ke GH doc ckp dah terbuka 8cm..siap nurse ckp, inilah 1st time saya tgk ibu deliver normally tanpa keluar setitik peluh..sakit mmg sakit, tapi Allah permudahkan prosesnya..tak lama.
Right: Nadhir, 1 year ++
February 23, 2012
When Our Second Child Arrives..
Later as Nadhir reached 11 months, we received another baby boy..named as Muhammad Nafiz Idlan..which means Yang Menegakkan Keadilan. He was born on 2 February 2009, and now became the second grandson. Alhamdulillah Nadhir takdela jealous with his new buddy, as I still send him to his grandma's house everyday..dekat sana semua orang melayan die..so he never cares to have a younger brother at his age..but I do, actually! Takut tak dapat layan Nad macam dulu..
Nadhir, baru 11 bulan masa ni..
It was also a bit chaos at first few months, as our new maid (it was my 1st experience hiring maid) wasn't very efficient handling babies. But luckily my grandma has been so helpful to come over our house, all the way from Taiping. She was just returned from Mekah at that time, hearing that we hired maid to look after our boys gave her uneasy feeling..hehe. Jadi Tok la yg masakkan makanan pantang saya selama sebulan. Terima kasih Tok..actually Tok yg besarkan saya dari saya berumur 2 bulan, dan saya masih balik ke Taiping setiapkali bercuti. So now we called her Nyang (panggilan untuk moyang, i guess :p..)
Juggling between office works, new baby, and my whole family gave me a quite big stress and pressures..huhu..but after several months with my husband's help, we managed to cope with the new situation, shall I name it..hehe..
So just after 2 years of marriage, we have 2 baby boys already..Alhamdulillah, ini jugak rezeki kan..anak2 adalah amanah Allah, juga suatu bentuk rezeki daripadaNya..setiap kelahiran itu datang bersama rezeki mereka sendiri, sudah tertulis di Luh Mahfuz..jadi kami terima dengan penuh kesyukuran..malah a week before his birth, kami telah berpindah ke rumah baru..so yes, rezeki anak!
February 22, 2012
Meet my 1st child..
Meet my precious..Muhammad Nadhir Ibtisam bin Mohd Nazry..born on 13 March 2008..inilah cucu yang ditunggu-tunggu sekian lama oleh my family in-law..cucu pertama Tok & Wan sebelah suami saya. While on my side, Nad adalah cucu ke..errr jap nak bilang..ramai sangat..nama anak2 buah pon saya tak ingat..mana tidaknye, saya anak ke-7 daripada 9 beradik. So, yes..saya kena bilang dulu ye..hehe..err kena tanya nenek & atuk di Kelantan dulu..itu pun kalau diorang ingat..haha..
Erti namanya adalah Senyuman Yang Berseri-seri..dialah yang pertama bagi segala-galanya..anak pertama, cucu pertama, anak saudara pertama. His presence is celebrated with a million of smiles, tears and laughters.
I was admitted into KMC labour ward around 10.30 am tanpa rasa sakit..but my O&G specialist, Dr Kang Chong Bean informed us that the 'pathway' has been opened around 2 cm. Terus rasa kecut perut, saya seperti nak jerit "I am not ready today, doc!". 13 jam yg menyeksakan, 2 kali induced..and eventually around 10pm, my soft-spoken doc sat besides me, gently touching my forehead and said this: "Laili, we have to do caesarian..baby hampir lemas, we are in condition called as "cord-around-neck"..so immediately they rushed me into operation theatre ..hanya pada pukul 11 malam baru Nad selamat dilahirkan through c-sect..Ahamdulillah, tapi saya cuma dapat jumpa Nad after 2 days..itupun right before I was discharged from the hospital, with abundant of bills..hehe..
Cuma dengar cerita from my hubby, like: "Lepas Abah habis azan di telinga die, tiba2 je baby bukak mata tgk Abah, sebak rasa!", "Abah tengok semua baby dlm nursery tu muka sama ja, takleh nak beza pun"...and so on...huwaaa sedih ok!
But, yes! He is the true joy..and our family journey begins..
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